Renting as a queer in Singapore: 9 tips from the LGBTQIA+ community

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Back in June, aka Pride Month, we organised an event for potential renters from the LGBTQIA+ community. Titled Renting in Singapore: Keeping It Crystal Queer, we had a few experts discuss their experiences of moving out and navigating the rental market in Singapore.

(Shout-out to CP Residences, a co-living provider in Singapore, for sponsoring the event.)

Here are some takeaways the panellists shared during the event.

1. Think about what you need before renting

One of the key things the panellists highlighted is that you should think about what you need in a home before moving out.

Jared from The Heartwavers elaborated on the factors to consider, such as the room type and the amount of money you’re willing to spend on rent.

2. Ensure you have enough savings before renting

The expenses incurred from leaving the nest and renting can be substantial, so you’ll need to make sure that you’ve set aside enough money for it.

Jared shared that as a rule of thumb, you should have six to 12 months’ worth of rent in your bank account before you rent.

But don’t just take into account the monthly rent; there’s also the rental deposit (aka security deposit) that you have to pay. Usually, the security deposit is one month’s rent for a one-year rental period, or two month’s rent for a two-year lease.

With that, he recommended that for those renting for the first time, it’s best to rent for six months first to test it out. Doing so also means that you’ll be paying less deposit.

He also suggested setting aside 50% of your salary for expenses and 30% for savings (since 20% of it goes to your CPF savings).

Kenny, from Haus of Pride and Prident, echoed Jared’s suggestion, adding that you’ll need to look at what you need and what you can afford. Ensure it’s realistic and adjust your expectations if necessary.

Crystal Queer event
Kenny shared that it’s important to take a look at what you can afford.

For instance, if you’re earning S$3k and have S$2k in savings, his advice was to save for another six months before moving out to rent.

Otherwise, if you need to move out urgently but don’t have enough money, Jared suggested moving in with friends, relatives or going to a shelter first.

Here’s a mini checklist the panellists shared on what to do and what to have before moving out:

  • Dependable friends and/or partner
  • Stable income
  • Savings
  • Know how much to pay
  • Drop hints to your parents before moving out
  • Take opportunities to live outside your parents’ house, eg. live on campus, go for overseas internships, to prime them for years


3. Take note of lifestyle adjustments, expenses, logistics and chores

Aside from knowing your needs and ensuring you have enough money, it’s essential to consider other aspects of renting, from lifestyle adjustments to chores.

Amanda, a community member who’s been renting for a few years, added that moving out also means that you’ll need to adapt to a new environment.

Her partner Nessa shared that you shouldn’t underestimate the logistics and chores to be done. This includes cleaning the room and maintaining the space.

Crystal Queer event
Nessa shared that you shouldn’t underestimate the logistics and chores to be done.

Kenny pointed out that one thing tenants often forget to do is aircon maintenance. So as a tenant, you’ll need to ensure that you get the aircon(s) serviced regularly and keep the receipts to show to your landlord. Otherwise, the landlord can deduct part of the deposit.

On top of that, other expenses to consider include laundry and meals.

4. Have an open communication

This is another thing the panellists emphasised, especially if you’re living with housemates.

Amanda has one tip: interview your potential housemates first before moving in. Doing so allows you to find out things like their habits, if they’re able to open up, and set boundaries.

Jared added that if you don’t get to choose your housemates, one thing to keep in mind is that you’ll have to be prepared to come out again when a new person comes.

Having an open communication isn’t only crucial for when you’re living with housemates, but also when you’re interacting with the landlord.

For instance, Kenny shared that it’s good to find out what the landlord is particular about.

Doing so also helps to minimise any rental disputes.

5. Set house rules

Another tip Jared shared is to set house rules, especially if you live with housemates. This will help ensure the cleanliness of the space.

“The number one rule is to be clean.”

6. Change the rental clauses where necessary before you sign the tenancy agreement

Once you’ve found the right place to rent, don’t jump into signing the tenancy agreement just yet. Don’t blindly accept the contract from the landlord as it is.

Kenny remarked that there’s still room for changes in the rental contract. So be sure to read it carefully first. Get your agent to look through it as well.

If you deem any clause unnecessary, you can ask the landlord to have them removed.

Adding on, he shared that landlords don’t have the right to enter the room without your permission. (This falls under the Access to Premises clause.)

As a tenant, you should be allowed to do standard things like laundry and cooking at the rental property.

(In recent years, we’ve heard horror stories about tenants not being allowed to do various things at the rental property. Like the case where the landlord had wanted to charge the tenant an extra S$10 a month for charging their laptop.)

In fact, Amanda revealed that in her first renting experience, she had to pay S$50 to use the kitchen space.

7. Don’t forget to take photos of the property

Amanda, who has dealt with various landlords, had previously lost part of her security deposit due to some damage.

Crystal Queer event
Amanda had previously lost part of her security deposit due to some property damage.

So she advised taking photos of the property to document its condition.

This can be done when you move in and before you move out. In case the landlord claims that you damage their property – for instance, that you’ve scratched the wooden flooring – you can use the photos to dispute their claims.

8. Make friends with the landlord

Jared explained that this is useful for when you need to get things fixed. So it’s good to maintain a relationship with them during the lease period.

For instance, you can start by treating them to a meal and helping them out.

9. Plan for property ownership

Kenny emphasised that renting should not be a long-term solution. He explained that with renting, you’re basically spending the money that you could have used to pay for your home loan instalments.

So it’s good to start thinking and planning about finances early so that you can buy your own home eventually.

For starters, you can get advice from various queer community organisations.

Crystal Queer event
We also invited several queer organisations to the event, where the community can mingle and network with.

Kenny went on to reveal that he had taken over his mother’s place. While this arrangement had allowed him to own a home, it also allowed his mum to get some retirement money out of the house.

On the property investment side, he has a 1% share of his sister’s investment condo unit. Both of them had taken a loan for it and paid for it equally. Since he already owns a property, he had to pay ABSD on the investment unit. However, he only had to pay ABSD on the 1% share.

In future, he plans to own another property. Now that his mum doesn’t own any property, the family is planning to buy a condo under her name, where Kenny can have a 1% share of it as well.

Do you have any rental tips to share? Let us know in the comments section below.

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About Virginia Tanggono

Virginia covers the property news in Singapore, from record sales to profile stories on home ownership. In her free time, she occasionally searches for spoilers of movies and TV shows.

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